How to choose a matchmaker

Even though matchmaking has long roots, many people don’t even know it exists. Considering this fact, if you encounter matchmaking for the first time and you start playing with the idea of trying it out, how do you know who to work with?

What to consider

1. Your location: Some matchmakers work globally and some work only locally. Depending on where you are based, you can look up matchmakers in your area, especially if you are looking for a partner who lives in or close to your city. If you would consider long-distance dating, moving out of your city or country, or moving your partner closer to you, you can also connect with matchmakers based abroad. You should also consider whether they insist on face-to-face meetings or whether they accept clients via online video calls.
2. What you are looking for: What is it that you are looking for? A partner with the same background as yours? Or a partner from a specific nationality? Or someone with the same education or even age as you? Many matchmakers have a specific niche, so before signing up for anything, ask them what type of clients they work with. Some work only with certain religions. Some work only with divorced people. Others work only with people above a certain age. Get to know your matchmaker’s niche and see if it is the right fit for you.
3. How much you are willing to invest: Different matchmakers, different memberships. Each matchmaker can have more than one type of membership. Some last for a few months or a few years, and some matchmakers even offer a lifetime membership. Ask about the packages they offer and see which one would suit you best. Some matchmakers accept clients for free, but they have their own selection process.
4. How comfortable you feel with your matchmaker: Meet your matchmaker and see how you feel about them. You should feel comfortable and safe. You should feel open enough to talk about details you usually wouldn’t talk about. They will ask you very detailed and personal questions, so you should feel comfortable revealing your desires, problems or needs. Keep in mind: the more open you are, the better job a matchmaker can do. There is no place for judgement, and your matchmaker must keep everything you say confidential and safe.

How I work at Find Your Swan

I am based in Dubai. Most of my clients live in the UAE, but anyone can join, and I have access to a worldwide network of eligible singles. I work with self-aware, established singles who want a committed relationship; every religion, nationality and age is welcome.

Membership starts with a short form to join my confidential database. Women join for free; for men, the length of membership and its investment are agreed individually, and we meet in person if we decide to work together.

If you would like to see how comfortable you feel with me first, book a free discovery call: 30 minutes, with no obligation.